Splitopia: dispatches from today's good divorce and how to part well

What we talk about when we talk divorce

The joy of ex : my quest for a more perfect disunion

Principles of parting : laying the groundwork for a good divorce

The expanded family : break up a marriage, not a family

The opposite of an engagement : telling others about your divorce

Friends ... and lack thereof : loneliness and how divorce affects non-romantic relationships

Hurricane : when crisis hits

I love you, you're perfect (now that you're gone) : the need for boundaries

Don't buy your lawyer a country house : making it legal

Transformative acts : making it feel real

Does this couch match my personality? : creating a home, alone

Am I free tonight? Let me check with my husband : dating while divorced, or even just separated

Happily ever after divorce : the evolving post-marriage relationship.