Ties that bind: familial homophobia and its consequences

"The oppressed will always believe the worst about themselves"

Cultural crisis, NOT personal problem

Homophobia as a pleasure system

The failure of therapeutic solutions

Doing to lovers as other have done to us/her

Third party intervention : the human obligation

Withholding creates tension, acknowledgment creates relief (and this is why we are talking about gay marriage)

To be real

Conclusion : facing challenging ideas.