To have and to hurt: recognizing and changing, or escaping, patterns of abuse in intimate relationships

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Praeger Publishers,
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2007.
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English
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A riveting look at abuse and violence - as well as patterns that point to developing abuse - in intimate relationships, and how to change, overcome or escape such patterns and abuse.
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To have and to hurt -- Bleeding eye story -- Getting at intent -- Getting at consent -- Power differential story -- Sharing the precious time of one's life -- Is cherish just a word-for a trade? -- Vow story -- Individual identity and the wedding vow -- Meet the intimate partner -- Anatomy of the bond -- Mixed messages story -- Watching for signs -- No idea story -- Why denial? -- What strength story -- The complex matter of emotional abuse -- Compromise and trade (C&T) abuse -- Power structure story -- Defining stress, trouble, abuse, and violence in relationships -- Who could ask for more story -- When the person abusing feels abused -- Unusually aggressive story -- addressing denial and problem patterns -- Numb to pain story -- Hollowing to patterns -- Dangerous denial story -- Patterns of abuse and violence in relationships -- This time story -- Pattern addictions to what we call love can control us -- Compulsion obsession story -- Emotional sadomasochism -- Gilded cage story -- The brutal fiduciary -- Fiduciary story -- Violence and abused-related trauma -- Altered state, violence, and weapon story -- Acknowledge long-term effects -- After the fact story -- Note about child witness fallout -- House cleaning story -- Knowing when to get out story -- How you know your skin's too tight -- Breaking through the problem pattern -- Seeing the troubled couple -- Rising above violence -- Wise elder plan for troubled couple -- Coming back from intimate partner abuse and violence -- The force of love -- Epilogue: motherhood, life, and violence.
Westport, Conn. :Praeger Publishers,2007.
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title_display To have and to hurt recognizing and changing, or escaping, patterns of abuse in intimate relationships
title_full To have and to hurt [electronic resource] : recognizing and changing, or escaping, patterns of abuse in intimate relationships / Angela Browne-Miller ; foreword by Arun Gandhi
title_short To have and to hurt
title_sub recognizing and changing, or escaping, patterns of abuse in intimate relationships