Chapter 1 A Theology of Unwanted Sexual Behavior p. 1 --
Part 1 How Did I Get Here? --
Chapter 2 Setting the Course of Unwanted Sexual Behavior p. 17 --
Chapter 3 Dysfunctional Family Systems p. 27 --
Chapter 4 Abandonment: A Life in Exile p. 37 --
Chapter 5 Triangulation: When You're Married to Your Parent p. 47 --
Chapter 6 Trauma as Soul Loss p. 57 --
Chapter 7 Sexual Abuse: The Corruption of Desire p. 65 --
Chapter 8 Six Core Experiences of Unwanted Sexual Behavior p. 85 --
Chapter 9 Three Hijackers of Our Souls p. 109 --
Chapter 10 Sex Industry: Pornography as Male Violence against Women p. 127 --
Part 3 How Do I Get Out Of Here? --
Chapter 11 Transforming Self: Learning to Love and Care for Yourself p. 141 --
Chapter 12 A New Sexual Story: Sexual Healing p. 157 --
Chapter 13 Exercise Attunement and Containment in Your Relationships p. 171 --
Chapter 14 Practice Conflict and Repair in Your Relationships p. 181 --
Chapter 15 Pursue Strength and Vulnerability in Your Relationships p. 193 --
Chapter 16 Learning to Invest in Community p. 205 --
Chapter 17 Community as a Place to Experience Structure and Mutual Support p. 209 --
Chapter 18 Community as a Place to Offer Empathy for the Stories of Others p. 221 --
Chapter 19 Community as a Place to Discover Purpose: Living for a Bigger Story p. 227.
