The narcissism of small differences
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A hilarious and poignant novel about growing up, buying in, selling out, and the death of irony.
"The Narcissism of Small Differences is one of [Zadoorian's] best. He has become an essential chronicler of the life in Detroit at the beginning of our century."--Stateside, Michigan Public Radio
#1 Bestseller (Fiction/Paperback) at Book Soup!
One of Detour Detroit’s 25 Notable Detroit and Michigan Books from 2020
"Like Zadoorian's earlier novels--The Lost Tiki Palaces of Detroit, The Leisure Seeker and Beautiful Music--this new novel brims with wit, passion and soul."--The Millions, one of The Millions' Most Anticipated Books of 2020
"If the very idea of irony were to die during the coronavirus, how would one bury it? A new book by Ferndale writer Michael Zadoorian might provide an answer."--Lansing City Pulse
"A quirky, original novel...Zadoorian deftly captures the flavor and eccentricities of life in Detroit."--Lansing State Journal
"Metro Detroit has been the setting of all four of Zadoorian's novels so far, and Narcissism...continues a career-long exploration of a place the Detroit native says has only become more 'wondrous' to him with age."--SEEN Magazine
"Landing somewhere between a pithy Joyce Carol Oates and Hunter S. Thompson's insightful revelations on American pop culture zeitgeist, Zadoorian beautifully weaves his native city and its inhabitants into a thoughtful story."--House of Tabu
"A quite wondrous, thoroughly entertaining and delightfully enthralling journey through a Detroit of 11 years ago that is, without a shadow of a doubt, a must read for any Detroit natives."--Exclusive Magazine
"[Zadoorian's] message--that as we get older, it's okay to reimagine our lives and maybe even sell out a little, as long as we stay true to our authentic selves--is earnest. And a side plot that takes Joe through some grand theaters of yesteryear, now dangerously decrepit, provides moments of genuine poignancy."--Booklist
Joe Keen and Ana Urbanek have been a couple for a long time, with all the requisite lulls and temptations, yet they remain unmarried and without children, contrary to their Midwestern values (and parents' wishes). Now on the cusp of forty, they are both working at jobs that they're not even sure they believe in anymore, but with significantly varying returns. Ana is successful, Joe is floundering--both in limbo, caught somewhere between mainstream and alternative culture, sincerity and irony, achievement and arrested development.
Set against the backdrop of bottomed-out 2009 Detroit, a once-great American city now in transition, part decaying and part striving to be reborn, The Narcissism of Small Differences is the story of an aging creative class, doomed to ask the questions: Is it possible to outgrow irony? Does not having children make you one? Is there even such a thing as selling out anymore?
More than a comedy of manners, The Narcissism of Small Differences is a comedy of compromise: the financial compromises we make to feed ourselves; the moral compromises that justify our questionable actions; the everyday compromises we all make just to survive in the world. Yet it's also about the consequences of those compromises--and the people we become because of them--in our quest for a life that is our own and no one else's.
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Booklist Review
Detroit hipsters hit middle-age and discover uncomfortable compromises but also new opportunities for authenticity. Ana and Joe have coasted into their forties by running on the heady fumes of Gen-X cool. He's a freelance cultural journalist, pitching underfunded magazines and drowning his sorrows in local microbrews. She has iconoclastic taste--1970s folk-rock, 1930s screwball comedies, mid-century graphic design--but somehow has ended up at the precipice of an unsettlingly traditional ad-agency career. The joys of cohabitation have dissolved into routine; their sex life has fizzled out. New opportunities--a morally challenging account for Ana, the Dollar Daily circular for Joe--break the malaise but also expose the limitations of their relationship. Zadoorian (Beautiful Music, 2018) leans heavily on brand names, music references, and gratuitous shout-outs to Detroit cultural fixtures. But his message--that as we get older, it's okay to reimagine our lives and maybe even sell out a little, as long as we stay true to our authentic selves--is earnest. And a side plot that takes Joe through some grand theaters of yesteryear, now dangerously decrepit, provides moments of genuine poignancy.
Publisher's Weekly Review
Zadoorian (The Leisure Seeker) serves up a wry, unflinching tale of an underachieving couple in midlife crisis mode as the recession grips the industrial Midwest. Joe and Ana live in Ferndale, Mich., a mile outside Detroit, where they've been shacked up (but not married) for 15 years. Joe's a freelance journalist just getting by, while Ana, once an aspiring documentary filmmaker, works in advertising and has become the breadwinner. Despite their cramped living quarters, they live in separate spheres. While Ana befriends and fantasizes over a coworker, Joe stays out late drinking and, while home, develops a heavy porn habit. After Ana catches Joe at the screen, she expresses doubts about their relationship and ongoing living situation. Things don't get any easier at work. Ana questions how far she's willing to stray from her progressive values to serve a Christian client, and Joe is reduced to a "telemarketing Willie Loman," selling ads for a newspaper. Zadoorian's comedy of contemporary manners resonates by virtue of its introspective characters and depictions of the small moments in life that, taken together, have great significance. Piquantly titled chapters ("Out Come the Freaks") provide additional comic snap. Zadoorian's subtle, timely story hits the mark. (May)
Library Journal Review
Detroit 2009--a once vital city ravaged by globalization, like many other cities in the former industrial Midwest. Good jobs are hard to find, and Joe and Ana, a longtime unmarried couple both in their late 30s, each struggle with jobs they don't like and a relationship of which they have become uncertain. They love Detroit and each other, but they are at a breaking point, needing to make serious choices about their futures. They feel a great deal of pressure to do what couples their age are supposed to do--get married, have children, and take out a mortgage. Ana has built a successful career in advertising, but she is finding this work increasingly soul-crushing. Joe has always wanted to be a writer, but he has had to support this dream with a series of increasingly dead-end jobs in a dying trade--journalism. Zadoorian (Beautiful Music; The Leisure Seeker) brings their travails and their relationship skillfully to life in this warm, surprisingly playful novel about middle-age crisis. VERDICT Zadoorian's obvious affection for Detroit, along with his enthusiasm for his characters' pursuit of meaningful lives, makes this a very enjoyable read. Recommended for fans of literary fiction and contemporary love stories.--Patrick Sullivan, Manchester Community Coll., CT
Kirkus Book Review
A Detroit couple faces personal and professional challenges. The latest novel by Zadoorian (Beautiful Music, 2018, etc.) explores the lives of two people questioning the relationship they've been in for the last 15 years. It's 2009; Ana Urbanek and Joe Keen live a comfortable life in Detroit. Ana works in advertising, where she makes a good living. Joe is a freelance writer, and his income is far more variable and intermittent. While the economic disparity between their professions leads to some tension within the relationship, it's minor. Though they've been together for a while, neither Joe nor Ana has an interest in having children, and even marriage is something that seems overly formal. As both turn 40, however, the occasion makes them question their choices in life. Ana gets a promotion at work while Joe takes a day job; each of those offers its own challenges to their senses of self and to the relationship they've nurtured for so long. These themes are accentuated by the choice of setting, both in terms of the city and in terms of the year. Detroit in 2009 is depicted as a place whose glory days are behind it and whose future is uncertain. Ana and Joe are neither fortune-seeking gentrifiers nor grizzled veterans, and their need to find a specific place where they belong makes for some of this novel's most affecting moments. The parallel narratives don't quite line up, as Ana's challenges, including doing work for an organization she feels ideologically opposed to and grappling with a potential workplace romance, feel several echelons higher than Joe's. But overall, Zadoorian concisely evokes his protagonists' struggles. This novel's stakes can sometimes feel too modest, but its empathy and lived-in qualities are both appealing. Copyright (c) Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.
Booklist Reviews
Detroit hipsters hit middle-age and discover uncomfortable compromises but also new opportunities for authenticity. Ana and Joe have coasted into their forties by running on the heady fumes of Gen-X cool. He's a freelance cultural journalist, pitching underfunded magazines and drowning his sorrows in local microbrews. She has iconoclastic taste—1970s folk-rock, 1930s screwball comedies, mid-century graphic design—but somehow has ended up at the precipice of an unsettlingly traditional ad-agency career. The joys of cohabitation have dissolved into routine; their sex life has fizzled out. New opportunities—a morally challenging account for Ana, the Dollar Daily circular for Joe—break the malaise but also expose the limitations of their relationship. Zadoorian (Beautiful Music, 2018) leans heavily on brand names, music references, and gratuitous shout-outs to Detroit cultural fixtures. But his message—that as we get older, it's okay to reimagine our lives and maybe even sell out a little, as long as we stay true to our authentic selves—is earnest. And a side plot that takes Joe through some grand theaters of yesteryear, now dangerously decrepit, provides moments of genuine poignancy. Copyright 2020 Booklist Reviews.
Library Journal Reviews
Detroit 2009—a once vital city ravaged by globalization, like many other cities in the former industrial Midwest. Good jobs are hard to find, and Joe and Ana, a longtime unmarried couple both in their late 30s, each struggle with jobs they don't like and a relationship of which they have become uncertain. They love Detroit and each other, but they are at a breaking point, needing to make serious choices about their futures. They feel a great deal of pressure to do what couples their age are supposed to do—get married, have children, and take out a mortgage. Ana has built a successful career in advertising, but she is finding this work increasingly soul-crushing. Joe has always wanted to be a writer, but he has had to support this dream with a series of increasingly dead-end jobs in a dying trade—journalism. Zadoorian (Beautiful Music; The Leisure Seeker) brings their travails and their relationship skillfully to life in this warm, surprisingly playful novel about middle-age crisis. VERDICT Zadoorian's obvious affection for Detroit, along with his enthusiasm for his characters' pursuit of meaningful lives, makes this a very enjoyable read. Recommended for fans of literary fiction and contemporary love stories.—Patrick Sullivan, Manchester Community Coll., CT
Copyright 2020 Library Journal.Publishers Weekly Reviews
Zadoorian (The Leisure Seeker) serves up a wry, unflinching tale of an underachieving couple in midlife crisis mode as the recession grips the industrial Midwest. Joe and Ana live in Ferndale, Mich., a mile outside Detroit, where they've been shacked up (but not married) for 15 years. Joe's a freelance journalist just getting by, while Ana, once an aspiring documentary filmmaker, works in advertising and has become the breadwinner. Despite their cramped living quarters, they live in separate spheres. While Ana befriends and fantasizes over a coworker, Joe stays out late drinking and, while home, develops a heavy porn habit. After Ana catches Joe at the screen, she expresses doubts about their relationship and ongoing living situation. Things don't get any easier at work. Ana questions how far she's willing to stray from her progressive values to serve a Christian client, and Joe is reduced to a "telemarketing Willie Loman," selling ads for a newspaper. Zadoorian's comedy of contemporary manners resonates by virtue of its introspective characters and depictions of the small moments in life that, taken together, have great significance. Piquantly titled chapters ("Out Come the Freaks") provide additional comic snap. Zadoorian's subtle, timely story hits the mark. (May)
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