Ch. 1. Introduction: who we are, why this book
Ch. 2. Crossdressed Lives: why they do it, who they are, why they can't stop
Ch. 3. Crossdressers' Wives, Girlfriends, and Partners: who they are, why they stay, how they deal
Ch. 4. Relationships: making it work for both of you
Ch. 5. Slippery Slope?: crossdressers, transsexualism, and autogynephilia
Ch. 6. Sex and Sensibility: straight, bi, and gay; role-playing & bdsm
Ch. 7. Episcene: gay bars, lesbian spaces, the t* friendly world
Ch. 8. Gendered Politics: homophobia, feminism, and being the T in in GLBT
Afterword: A Few Words from Betty: a few words from the crossdresser in question
App. B. The Cast of Characters: all the people mentioned in this book
App. D. Resources: places for the crossdresser to find support and community.