My Glory Was I Had Such Friends: A Memoir
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Silverstein (Sick Girl, 2007) needs a new heart. She's been here before, 25 years ago, when she received a heart transplant that outlasted its 10-year estimate. A second transplant is trickier, and Silverstein is a match for only a small percentage of hearts. Told that Cedars-Sinai is her best chance, Amy and her husband leave their New York home to live in California while she awaits a new heart. When her friends learn of her situation, they divvy up all the days she will be out there, each agreeing to at least one and sometimes several three- or four-night stays so that she is never alone. Silverstein's skillful writing relates an increasingly brutal array of health issues as her heart starts to fail. Unafraid to show herself warts-and-all, she recounts both missteps caused by her outspoken personality and her own growth throughout the process. A brave, transparent look at the harrowing battle of a heart-transplant patient who, through the support of her friends, conquers unthinkable odds.--Shaw, Stacy Copyright 2010 Booklist

Waiting for a new heart, the author was buoyed by nine devoted friends.At the age of 25, Silverstein (Sick Girl, 2007) underwent a heart transplant, a grueling experience that she chronicled in her first memoir. The transplant was followed by other medical challenges: breast cancer, requiring a double mastectomy, and major valve surgery. At the age of 51, she learned that her transplanted heart was failing, and she needed another one. Because of an excessive quantity of antibodies resulting from the first transplant, Silverstein's likelihood of getting a donor match was only 14 percent, and only Cedars-Sinai, in Los Angeles, offered the highly specialized treatment she required. Besides confronting the physical ordeal of surgery, she worried that she would be isolated from her friends and family in New York. When her closest friends learned of her imminent move, though, they banded together in a generous, selfless show of support, creating a spreadsheet that ensured an "unbroken chain of presence." Her candid recounting of five months at Cedars-Sinai tautly conveys her pain, tension, and despair as she waited for a donor heart; and, crucial to her survival, the loyalty and love bestowed by the women who took turns sitting at her bedside, festooning her hospital room with photos and decorations, bearing witness to the frustrating and frightening realities of her profound illness, and easing her pain in whatever way they could. They also frankly chastised her about her irritability toward assorted medical personnel and her ever patient husband. More than once, Silverstein felt like giving up hope: the implantation of a pacemaker seemed more than she could bear. Resisting sedation for any procedure was a way she felt in control, but the pacemaker took over, riddling her with excruciating pain, increasing as her heart failed. The author takes her title from a poem by Yeats, one of many verses that she memorized to keep her spirits up. She amply testifies to the unfailing friendsher husband includedwho never lost faith in her recovery. An intimate celebration of the power of compassion. Copyright Kirkus Reviews, used with permission.

Silverstein (Sick Girl, 2007) needs a new heart. She's been here before, 25 years ago, when she received a heart transplant that outlasted its 10-year estimate. A second transplant is trickier, and Silverstein is a match for only a small percentage of hearts. Told that Cedars-Sinai is her best chance, Amy and her husband leave their New York home to live in California while she awaits a new heart. When her friends learn of her situation, they divvy up all the days she will be out there, each agreeing to at least one and sometimes several three- or four–night stays so that she is never alone. Silverstein's skillful writing relates an increasingly brutal array of health issues as her heart starts to fail. Unafraid to show herself warts-and-all, she recounts both missteps caused by her outspoken personality and her own growth throughout the process. A brave, transparent look at the harrowing battle of a heart-transplant patient who, through the support of her friends, conquers unthinkable odds. Copyright 2017 Booklist Reviews.